Ten Minutes in the Monkey Forest

Beside a small gravel carpark next to State Highway 1 on the Kapiti Coast in New Zealand, huddled in a small v between the shoulders of two hills, is a remnant of ancient kohekohe forest and sub-tropical bush. It is crammed with palms, vines, and ferns. Most people in the area know it as Nikau Reserve. The signs on the highway point to Nikau Reserve. Such imaginative naming comes from the abundant nikau palms, the southernmost variety of palm. There are probably thousands, from the baby, feathery sprouts of green poking above the leave litter on the forest floor, to two hundred year old soaring giants, spreading their umbrella canopy ten, twelve, fifteen metres above our heads. These are Doctor Seuss trees, with their long, striped, green trunks tapering into a polished, bulbous crownshaft and a fountain spray of fronds.

In the spring, lilac flowers bloom from crownshaft and after the flowers, the fruit. Red berries cluster in strings, like dangling necklaces of beads, tantalising treats for kereru. Fantails, grey warblers, tui, bellbirds and kereru fill the gaps between the trees with song and wingbeats. Creatures scuffle in the chaos of the forest floor. Brittle, brown nikau fronds too large to lie prone lean at an inebriated tilt between tree trunks. The foot of the fronds balloons into a scoop as big as a bucket, the head flourishes two ranks of spears. A narrow path loops through the trees and thin, shallow streams meander either side. At the apex of the loop, a fork in the path holds out the promise of a steep, twenty minute climb to a lookout with panoramic views: coastal plains, townships, the glittering turquoise Tasman Ocean, Kapiti Island, the coastline north, and on clear days maybe even a glimpse of a volcano on the skyline.sunset-1171082_960_720.jpg

This four acre gem is two minutes drive from my home. On a day when the sun is hot

enough to fry any bare skin, the cool green dim, trellised with green-gold sunlight, is a haven.

On a day when grey rain stripes a greyer sky, listening to the raindrops tapping on an impenetrable roof of leaves is better than any meditation music. On a day when I need a walk, but my zebra joints fall out of their sockets if I walk too far, or the wind is too vicious for my face, this sheltered, ten minute loop track is the ideal solution. And on a day when two small children are thirsty for adventure, this place is the perfect destination.

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These two small children are our six year old and seven and a half year old grandchildren. They have been coming here with me and my husband for five years now. To them, it has never just been a walk through the Nikau Reserve with Oma and Opa, or a scramble up a rocky path through pillars of trees to a pretty view at the top. It is far more exciting. It is freedom and exploration. It is play, curiosity, mystery and discovery. It is The Monkey Forest.

The first time we brought them here they were toddlers, intensely curious about the world around them and beginning to soak up knowledge they spouted at every opportunity, from naming the raucous bird with the white ruff as a tui, to explaining why few flowers grow on the forest floor. 

Then they were young enough to believe, when we asked them if they’d like to come on an adventure to the Monkey Forest with us, that they really would see some monkeys. They loitered for at least half an hour, peer up into the distant canopy, convinced they might see the whisk of a monkey tail or the flick of a monkey paw. A few stones thrown at judicious intervals into the undergrowth helped keep the magic alive.

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kereru – woodpigeon

Sometimes a woodpigeon helped out by dropping some shiny red berries from its beak, or flying through the trees with that drum roll beat of wings that could surely be a monkey jumping from branch to branch.

While they were looking for monkeys, they were discovering so many other treasures.

“Look, there are flowers growing up in that tree!”

“See that bird, it’s got a tail.”

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piwakawaka – fantail

“That plant looks like a monkey tail.”

“A furry, curly monkey tail.” And the fun didn’t stop when they decided the monkeys were probably all having their afternoon nap so the closest they were going to come to one was the coiled brown fur of new-growth on the ferns. There was still paddling to be done in the little stream beside the path, and leaves and stones to be washed. There were stones to be thrown inside drainage pipes, and shouting to hear the echo.

They are wiser now. They both know that when we said monkeys, we might just have meant them. Seven year olds know that monkeys don’t live in New Zealand. He knows that nikau palms take a hundred years or more to grow ten metres, that each stripe on the trunk is a scar of a fallen leaf. Six year olds know enough Maori to call the fantail piwakawaka and the woodpigeon kereru. She takes my pronunciation in hand, explaining how to get that tricky rotic r. ki-di-do, Oma. It’s a soft d.

And they know too, that you can pack a lot of adventure into ten minutes in the Monkey Forest.

Tips for Managing Life with Chronic Pain

Chronic pain conditions make it very difficult to stay as involved and active in life as we’d like to, or as we were before we were disabled. Sometimes it feels easier to hide away at home, and avoid company, but that’s a surefire route to depression. Sure, there are always times when going out at all isn’t possible. But there are plenty of occasions when breaking activities into bite-size pieces helps you manage your condition without missing out altogether. Put a time limit on social events e.g.

monkeyspin31 – Going to a party for a whole evening is beyond you? Drop in for ten minutes, or half an hour

2 – An evening in a restaurant too much? Join later for dessert and coffee

3 – A long event you can’t avoid? Take frequent rest breaks. Keep pillows and a blanket in your car for somewhere to nap

4 – Spending quality time with children? Structure activities around local places, and factor in plenty of independent play and exploration.

5 – Learn your own limitations, and think quality, not quantity. Remember, you can pack a lot of adventure into ten minutes.


  42 comments for “Ten Minutes in the Monkey Forest

  1. 13/11/2019 at 12:45 pm

    I just added this webpage to my feed reader, excellent stuff. Cannot get enough!

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  2. 01/05/2019 at 2:41 am

    Stick me in a forest any day and I’m in my happy place! I always feel sorry for people who will never get out of their comfort zone and explore places such a this! Great read!

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    • Trish
      01/05/2019 at 10:25 am

      Forests, rivers, beaches and mountains are all my happy places – actually, anything outdoors in nature! People who don’t experience it lose out on a lot of joy.

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  3. erica3639
    01/05/2019 at 2:12 am

    I am so inspired after reading this to get out in nature and take some time to explore! I just stopped to text a friend and see if he wanted to tag along in the upcoming weekend. I love your description and pictures. You had me at monkey forest. Lol. I tend to forget that an adventure is just ten minutes away.

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    • Trish
      01/05/2019 at 10:26 am

      Glad I inspired you – hope you have a great time!

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  4. 30/04/2019 at 4:32 pm

    It is a wonderful way to spend some quality time with the kids. Lovely outdoors. I love the blue sky with a little shade of white.

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    • Trish
      01/05/2019 at 10:27 am

      It really is – so much learning and fun and exploration together.

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  5. 30/04/2019 at 1:41 pm

    I love the imagery in the first two paragraphs—it made it so easy to imagine a setting that I’d never seen or experienced in real life. What a joy to experience this natural beauty with your grandchildren (even if there weren’t really any monkeys)!

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    • Trish
      30/04/2019 at 1:44 pm

      Thank you, Tracy. I think I’d have got the fright of my life if we’d really seen a monkey materialise amongst the trees!

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  6. 30/04/2019 at 2:35 am

    We live in an increasingly cynical and questioning society. Children absorb everything, but it’s important to teach critical thinking while cultivating childhood wonder!

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    • Trish
      30/04/2019 at 10:39 am

      These two are full of childhood wonder!

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  7. rachaelthrive
    29/04/2019 at 8:56 am

    The Pictures Of the birds that are included in your post are really incredible! What a lovely place to be so close too! Something about a walk in nature really allows me to clear my head and truly BE.

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    • Trish
      29/04/2019 at 6:18 pm

      We have some stunning birdlife in NZ

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  8. 29/04/2019 at 6:37 am

    sometimes, we need to escape from the bubble we live in and step in the real nature. Thank you for sharing a wonderful experience.

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    • Trish
      29/04/2019 at 6:23 pm

      Yes, real nature is where we need to spend a lot more time – it’s so good for us.

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  9. fourcolu
    29/04/2019 at 6:22 am

    Beautiful New Zealand. Much more than sheep and a place to shoot movies. You are passionate about what you do and a unique style of writing. The Monkey Forest is close to your heart and sharing it with your grandchildren. I also liked how at the end you talk about chronic pain keep up the good work.

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    • Trish
      29/04/2019 at 6:20 pm

      Yes, so much more to NZ than sheep and movies. Thank you for your nice comments.

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  10. Lindsay Rae
    29/04/2019 at 12:49 am

    What a lovely post! Your description of this magical place is absolutely beautiful. I love your writing style and always look forward to reading your work!!

    The Monkey Forest sounds like a wonderful place to explore with your grandchildren! Thank you so much for sharing these moments with us!

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    • Trish
      29/04/2019 at 6:19 pm

      It really is a lovely place to take them to. Thank you for your lovely comments about my writing.

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  11. 28/04/2019 at 11:15 pm

    I love the outdoors. It revives me and keeps me sane. You are doing a great thing by nurturing love and curiosity for nature in your grandchildren. For them the reserve will always be The Monkey Forest, and no amount of growing up can take away that wonderment for the natural world, which you created in their minds.

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    • Trish
      28/04/2019 at 11:44 pm

      That’s exactly it – it will be The Monkey Forest for them forever

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  12. 28/04/2019 at 1:53 pm

    What a vivid writing style you have. i enjoyed your descriptions and the way you brought me along on your journey. This sounds like a wonderful outing. It’s great to give them ideas on what to look for even if the search will be unending. You’ve created memories for them that they will never forget. It’s so important to add life to a location that will peel their imaginations and build their curiosity.

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    • Trish
      28/04/2019 at 11:41 pm

      Thank you for your lovely words – I always try to make my writing make readers feel part of it!

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  13. 28/04/2019 at 2:09 am

    If not for this post, I would have known nothing about Kapiti Island. Oh that pigeon reminds me of peacock! 😀

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    • Trish
      28/04/2019 at 11:42 pm

      It’s a colourful pigeon, that’s for sure!

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  14. Jennifer McCormick
    28/04/2019 at 12:14 am

    There is nothing more magical than a child exploring a forest. Oftentimes nature brings even adults back to the days of free play and exploration. This passage inspired me to bundle up, put on my raincoat and head into the woods with my son today.

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    • Trish
      28/04/2019 at 10:16 pm

      That’s why I love woods – that re-engagement with the child still inside!

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  15. Lyosha Varezhkina
    27/04/2019 at 8:22 pm

    it sounds so very interetsing and unusual. monkey forest sure is fun! 10 minutes could be a lot! I am glad you enjoyed it

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    • Trish
      28/04/2019 at 11:42 pm

      It’s amazing how much fun can be squeezed into a short amount of time

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  16. 23/02/2019 at 1:05 am

    Great post, Trish. It is so important to still do things when we live with chronic health problems, so learning how to manage trips out is vital. Your ten minutes sounded fantastic.

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    • Trish
      26/02/2019 at 12:32 am

      Thanks, Liz. The Monkey Forest is one of my favourite places, but we have quite a collection of bite-size trips we can choose from.

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  17. 26/10/2018 at 8:45 pm

    Nnniiiccceeeeee….quality over quantity! Beautiful piece.

    Thanks for sharing.

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  18. tennismom miami
    26/10/2018 at 6:01 am

    I love how you make sceneries come to life with your writing. It felt like I was there. I’ll add to my list for next time we visit NZ. Thank you:)

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  19. 26/10/2018 at 4:03 am

    This is great! I could feel myself walking with you. I try to find adventures to enjoy with my little one although in the big city.

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    • trish veltman
      26/10/2018 at 9:35 am

      Building sites! Our two go crazy for building sites. Diggers, cranes, cement lorries, they’ll watch for hours!

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  20. Pearl
    26/10/2018 at 2:58 am

    This is an amazing way to spend time with kids in the outdoors, and they learn a lot! Loved the pictures you included in this post as well.

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    • trish veltman
      11/11/2018 at 5:50 pm

      Yes, it’s a lot of fun too.

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  21. Gillie
    25/10/2018 at 4:59 pm

    It’s wonderful to share the things we value with our children and grandchildren. Hopefully, they will cherish those times.

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  22. 25/10/2018 at 12:30 pm

    That’s so cool. My son and his wife are expecting their first baby, which will be my first grandbaby! I hope I can think of fun things like this to do with them, I know yours cherish their time with their Oma and Opa!

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  23. milestonetravelsllc
    25/10/2018 at 12:47 am

    Very descriptive writing, I could almost see all the foliage and feel the coolness of the forest, Thank you for a little piece of heaven this morning.

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  24. Tamieka S
    24/10/2018 at 11:02 pm

    This looks like an interesting place. I was fascinated with the bird on the leave. Great article.

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  25. Audrey Lee
    24/10/2018 at 8:47 pm

    This was such a fun and enjoyable read! I’ve always been a fan of New Zeland and can’t wait to visit it again. Keep up the good work.

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